Letting Go of The Illusion

Posted on 02. Sep, 2011 by Domenica in Emotional Wellness, Personal Power, Sacred Feminine Power

Are you tired of waiting for that big moment when everything in your life falls into place?

No matter how diligently you apply the Law of Attraction principles, or how much personal transformation you’ve undertaken…you still find yourself recycling the same old fears, the same old stories in your mind.

You know that your purpose is to transform the lives of many, and yet you feel like you can’t even get your own life worked out? You feel conflicted….On one hand you LOVE serving others and sharing your gifts with the world, on the other hand, the idea of being visible to masses of people fills you with dread.

What if they discover you are a fraud, and you don’t really know as much as you claim. You’re filled with self-doubt and all you really want to do is run and hide. Does any of this sound familiar?

You find yourself asking ‘It should be easier than this right?’.  Well it can be. Let me explain further.

Today’s world is undergoing a paradigm shift in consciousness, such as hasn’t been seen for thousands of years. This new paradigm shift demands authenticity, connection, purpose and leadership from the Spirit, and women are uniquely designed for this type of leadership.

The patriarchal energy which has been expressed for thousands of years is finally releasing its hold on the collective awareness and our Sacred Feminine Power of Creation can finally be allowed its expression.

Here’s what I hear from women all the time:

  • I constantly yearn for that ‘something’ that is missing. If only I can find it, I can get on with my life.
  • I do such a great job of appearing ‘together’ and ‘switched on’; if only people knew how crazy it gets in my head sometimes.
  • I desperately want to move forward with my Soul’s purpose and yet I feel paralysed by fears and self-doubts.
  • I have an amazing family and kids…why isn’t it enough for me to just be a wife and mother.
  • I feel tired and flat most of the time, and my body niggles with aches and pains.
  • The voices in my head drive me CRAZY, questioning everything from my weight, to my work, my relationships…..NOTHING IS EVER GOOD ENOUGH.
  • I know I’m meant to be doing something else with my life; I feel powerless, hopeless and don’t even know where to start.

It can be a crazy world inside our heads sometimes.

Here’s the thing though…much like a car park spot, which cannot house two cars at the same time in the same spot, so it is within our own Soul. We cannot hold the tremendous power of our Soul’s purpose while holding the power of the illusions we have so far believed. One must go, and it’s not always comfortable and it’s not always pleasant.

The resurfacing fears are simply a purging of the illusions that no longer serve in our new role as Sacred Feminine Leaders.

So if you choose to awaken your Sacred Feminine Power of Creation and claim your right to live your Soul’s purpose, there are a few tips that will help you honour the tremendous power awakening within you.

  1. Stop searching for the negative belief you have to change. Period. There is nothing wrong with you. You are not, have never been and never will be broken, flawed or not enough. Applying this tip alone will release you from the helplessness, powerless and doubt and propel you forward. It is the continual searching for one more program, one more limiting belief, one more book to read that keeps women stuck, stuck, stuck in a perpetual cycle of procrastination, lethargy, doubt and powerlessness. Instead ask the following questions; “What if there has never been anything wrong with me?” “What if everything I am feeling and experiencing is simply my Soul’s way of preparing me for the tremendous power of my Soul’s purpose?”
  2. Respect what you already have. In other words, stop complaining about what you don’t have yet, and honour what you already do have by being rep. You want more money in your life.  Then do you honour and respect the money you already have? You want your business to grow and thrive.  Then do you honour and respect it as it is right now? Where your business is right NOW; or do you complain that the clients are difficult and don’t appreciate your skills. You want to feel fitter and healthier. Do you wake up each morning and honour your body with what it needs, whether that is movement, meditation or a nurturing meal. Your Sacred Power of Creation goes where you send it….And you can choose to send it on a mission that serves you and your Purpose, or not.
  3. Clean up any unfinished business. I make it a habit to keep a list of any incompletes in my life. These may be unpaid bills, agreements I have broken, books I haven’t returned, financial matters that are overdue. Energetically, these things take up a lot of space in your psyche even if they are not in the forefront of your daily activities. Each month or so, I spend time completing any unfinished business on my list. A burden lifts from my shoulders, and it frees my power to be available to create what I want.
  4. Stay congruent. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Most women will bend over backwards for others, yet wouldn’t give a second thought to breaking an agreement with herself. How many times have you declared tomorrow is the day you’ll start that new diet, make that important phone call or start  your new business; only to find yourself using delaying tactics. Energetically, this sets up conflict within you, and it reflects in your external world as very haphazard results.

Practice these tips even for just a few weeks and notice the impact on your life.  How do you now feel about yourself?  What different opportunities are entering your life?  How have your relationships changed, especially the one with YOU?   I would be delighted to hear from you…

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